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« on: August 23, 2005, 04:47:06 PM »

what is the opinion of african in china about marriage between Black african and chinese girls.
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« Reply #1 on: August 23, 2005, 05:03:51 PM »

It's a good thing. The kids usually are very beautiful. Why this question, are you candidate?
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« Reply #2 on: August 23, 2005, 05:12:51 PM »

Come to think of it, i've heard of marriages or relationships between African guys( or any foreigner for that matter) and Chinese women, but i've never heard of a Chinese guy dating a foreign woman, why is it like that?

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« Reply #3 on: August 23, 2005, 05:40:11 PM »

Mariage between Chinese men and Africans women are even more rare. If anyone has seen any please let us know.

On the other hand, marriage between Chinese men and European or American woman is much common though. But it seems in most cases they met abroad, with the Chinese born there or having emigrated there for study or work.

But we don't see often "real" chinese men (I mean born and living in China, and who did not leave the country at all, nothing insulting here) getting together with foreign chicks and getting to marriage. It seems the foreign women are not much interested, but WHY? That is the question.
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« Reply #4 on: August 24, 2005, 06:56:07 PM »

i really want to see how the kids looks like cause it's very rare.
 
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« Reply #5 on: August 24, 2005, 07:08:51 PM »

your are right Pat-togo , western women are not interested in chinese men because first they say chinese men sex drive not high . second western woman say they are not smart enough ( it's not insult )  and most of them  have no adea about foreign culture.
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« Reply #6 on: August 24, 2005, 08:07:03 PM »

  I have ever fallen in love with a black African man, but our love had no result though we have still loved together so much . Beforetime he also asked me how would be our children...  , I responded " Okay, Im sure our children are very healthful,very perfect  'cause I will bore them  :-*, but Im just afraid that they have my intellect and have ur beauty...  " I only joked... But...but... my Honey couldnt understand !!!  He left from me, went away from here to Japan... Since then I have lost him...  He was touchyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.....  
                       Having no him here, I became solitary... Only me, only me...  I seach for his image on the roads where we often walked... , in the churchs, in the orphan asylum ...ect.... but only meee... Everyday I still  listen to his favorite song Dont Know Much... Yah, I dont know much, but I know I love U !
                      
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                       I hope the black African and Asian will have good results for their love .
                       I hope he can understand my love for him.
                        
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« Reply #7 on: August 24, 2005, 08:35:24 PM »

That's so sad. But I don't believe that your honey left you for just a joke, there must be deeper reasons that motivated his decisions...In case there is no hope just take the time to forget the past and look forward a brighter future.

In my country we say the one who is crying can still see through his tears. Hope you will make yours this proverb and good luck.
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« Reply #8 on: September 27, 2005, 11:20:36 AM »

well KHABZELA this is pretty much an answer to your question
 
being an african WOMAN, i'll give you my opinion of why fewer foreign women especially african hook up with chinese guys.

chinese men are generally shy and conservative, compared to their women who are more open minded. well lets face it , the major issue here we dont find them attractive ( no offence, and im sure i speak on behalf of the majority of black ladies)  the same way they dont find US attractive... on the other hand, our black men and chinese ladies have no problems with the 'attraction' problem, infact i have a lot of chinese gal pals HOOKED on you black guys( whatever gets them hooked,,, u should know better ;)

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« Reply #9 on: December 08, 2005, 04:22:44 AM »

Thought you might be interested at this love story,

http://www2.bbsland.com/articleReader.php?idx=41841

I am a Chinese living in the U.S. and LOVE Africans. My dream is to go Africa with my best friend, an African.
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« Reply #10 on: December 08, 2005, 06:49:45 AM »

Thought you might be interested at this love story,

http://www2.bbsland.com/articleReader.php?idx=41841

I am a Chinese living in the U.S. and LOVE Africans. My dream is to go Africa with my best friend, an African.

is there an english version of this article somewehre?
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« Reply #11 on: December 10, 2005, 01:35:20 AM »

Brother Neil,

I don't know if there is an English version, but I hope you find a Chinese to read the story in English for you.  The author, a Chinese girl, had a successful career in the U.S. before she moved to Africa and married an African that she met in China.  Quite romantic and moving.
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« Reply #12 on: February 09, 2006, 02:56:18 PM »

why i cannot open that website? can anyone kindly download that story for me??? thank you
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« Reply #13 on: April 18, 2006, 08:26:51 PM »

well KHABZELA this is pretty much an answer to your question
 
being an african WOMAN, i'll give you my opinion of why fewer foreign women especially african hook up with chinese guys.

chinese men are generally shy and conservative, compared to their women who are more open minded. well lets face it , the major issue here we dont find them attractive ( no offence, and im sure i speak on behalf of the majority of black ladies)  the same way they dont find US attractive... on the other hand, our black men and chinese ladies have no problems with the 'attraction' problem, infact i have a lot of chinese gal pals HOOKED on you black guys( whatever gets them hooked,,, u should know better ;)

ONE LOVE


couldn't agree with you more,blackgoddess.That's why we black girls in china are in big trouble on both sides.Chinese men are afraid or of us or dont find us attractive and blacks guys are still swimming in the luxury of having chinese girls scramble over them.What do we do?As for our darling chinese forumite whose sweetheart left,don't worry ok gurl?Heartbreaks happen to everyone,no matter the race so dont put the blame on ur cultural differences.I guess both of u were never meant to be and someday,u will find ur true love. ;) ;)
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« Reply #14 on: April 25, 2006, 11:28:14 PM »

Dear brothers and sisters,

       This is my first time to login in this website. I am from africa, having study for 7 years and now working in China a for few year already. i am married with a chinese girl and we have a kid (3 years old). Actually we are fighting against society racism and others pressure coming from local people who look down of my wife because she married me. I think she could have give up on this pressure if we don't have a kid. what do you think brothers and sisters?

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