Playing Games

???I have a question for everyone??.
If you meet someone that you like and have a lot in common with do you play games?  Like I won't call you until you call me, let me not seem so unavailable, let me give you your space... I was taught by some players, male and females, that in order to keep a man's interest you have to always be a challenge.  But at what point in the relationship or initial courtship do the games cease.  I was once in a situation where I met a guy that I thought was so nice, but I wasn't really sure if he was truly honest with his feelings.  So I played games...  Well my main question is will you still be a challenge or considered desirable if you don't play hard to get?  And for the guys what are the signs if a guy is really feeling you or not.

I dunno, but i think it's best to go with ur gut feelin, do whateva feels rite...hmm actually i doubt i was of any help, LOL!!

That's a tough one Danielle...

Thing is, guys are all different & they go for different sort of gals (or guys).  I suppose the best thing to do, if you're deep into someone is to just be yourself.

If he's not into the you that you are then I guess you don't have that much in common after all.

All good points, thank you.  I was trying to spark up a discussion on does anyone else play games when starting a new relationship.  Does anyone think games are necessary? Why/Why not. 
I just watched John Tucker Must Die, and there was a lot of game playing going on and it seemed to work.  Also they have all these books out, instructing females on how to play games, since men always seem to want a challenge. 

Well it does depend on the person.  Some games are considered immature and will cause a mature man to take his game somewhere else.  You have to decide what kind of man you want and tailor your games to that.  Not calling each other is highschool stuff. 

if you like the man the call him.  If he's playing that immature stuff then leave him alone.  You have to know when to hold and when to fold.

All good points, thank you.  I was trying to spark up a discussion on does anyone else play games when starting a new relationship.  Does anyone think games are necessary? Why/Why not. 
I just watched John Tucker Must Die, and there was a lot of game playing going on and it seemed to work.  Also they have all these books out, instructing females on how to play games, since men always seem to want a challenge. 

In my opinion everything is just a big game - you gotta play it right to win...if he's rich, marriage without prenup would probably mean "win". >joke<

I agree with Minghei though, it totally depends on the individual.  Some people like the chase, but some people just don't 'coz it is a rather childish thing.

In my opinion everything is just a big game -

Exactly.. The whole relationship thing is a game..
When I saw the movie "Two can play that Game", I concluded that relationships in general is a game

"Two can play that Game" is a great example.  I just think sometimes people get really caught up in the game. 

if you like the man the call him.  If he's playing that immature stuff then leave him alone.  You have to know when to hold and when to fold.

MingHei, I am in a relationship.  So the topic was for discussion purposes only.

I was comenting just for discussion.