True or False: Foreign guys are players

This is a word of alert to all foreign , non Asian guys living in China, whether black,white, orange or whatever. It seems our sisters have cast a vote of no confidence on us. I've actually conducted a bit of research across the colour line, and it seems the views are the same. Foreign women in China believe we are all players. They feel us laowai guys are intoxicated with Chinese ladies, to the extent of possesing several at a time.

This is worsened by the fact that the Chinese guys seem to be 'afraid' to hook up with them(non Asian ladies) .So they are kind of in limbo, coz non Asians are running after Chinese chicks, and Chinese guys seem to have no guts to hook up with them. Hey these aren't my words u know, i arrived at this through various discussions with quite a number of European,African, American,etc. ladies, all of differnt races.

So what's the reallity is there any truth in this? I need answers my peeps!

[ They feel us laowai guys are intoxicated with Chinese ladies, to the extent of possesing several at a time.


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Could not have said it better!

well here is what i KNOW  in the case of MOST african guys in china especially..

When they were in africa (before coming to china that is), no woman would even look TWICE at them, then they come to china and BAM! its paradise for them as millions of chinese/ japanse/ korean girls are willing to experiment the black and 'gifted' creatures.

ofcourse all the sudden attention gets them hyper excited hence the multiple dates at the same time  ( imagine moving from an era where you had to work extra hard to get any woman go out with you.  to literally having women knock at you door throwing themselves at yoiu)  ..Well i dont blame em!!  enjoy as long as you play it safe... my advice is BE SMART and marry here, coz if you do go back ..i don't think you can handle the pressure of trying HARD to get a woman!!

Funny thing is I thought Magic Johnson was crazy when I read his book, My Life, and he talked about how he slept with a lot of women because he felt he had to accomodate them....then I came to China.  I haven't slept with a lot of women, but so many people want to hang out with me that I do feel obligated to accomodate them.  It just so happens that most of them are women. 

I live in a more rural area so the "traditional" women really just want to say they know a foreigner...no sex.  I've become a small time celeberity.  Some how my cell number circulated around the city and I get strange calls and SMSs at all times of the night.  The bad thing is that if I'm rude then it will spread like wild fire and i'll be asked, in no uncertain terms, to leave.

Anyway, all the attention from women is good.  How can a home life where you're just another average Joe compete?

I live in a more rural area so the "traditional" women really just want to say they know a foreigner...no sex.  I've become a small time celeberity.  Some how my cell number circulated around the city and I get strange calls and SMSs at all times of the night
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If you just want to have more friends and no dirty thoughs, it is a great thing. I have the same experience when I was staying in a small remote city in Japan, I had different ladies going out with me everyday and stayed in some of their homes as their family guest. Of course I knew that I have to behave myself because all the ladies were talking about me. It make great friendship and after many years some of them  came to visit me with thier husband and stayed in my house.