ubudlelwano bukamamazala lomalukazana

[UMdluli kaThebula]

kungani umamazala lomalukazana wakhe bengazwisisani esikhathini esinengi.kungabe kuyindaba yokuthi bonke bangabe sifazane kumbe kukhona okunye thina amadoda esingakwaziyo?
...kungabe kuyindaba yokuthi laye umamazala wathi esenda wahluphana lomamazala wakhe?
...kungabe kuyindaba yokuthi vele abesifazane abaphathisani(moral and social support)
...kungabe kungumona nje wokuthi intombi le iqeda imali yomntanami?
or maybe yikuthi vele omamazala bayahlanya esikahthini esinengi.

Liyibambeni mahlabezulu,siyihlafune sidle ingqondo

[precious]

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...kungabe kuyindaba yokuthi vele abesifazane abaphathisani(moral and social support)
...kungabe kungumona nje wokuthi intombi le iqeda imali yomntanami?]

I topic leyi iyahlupha and I don't think impendulo sizabayazi anytime soon!Mina akula okunengi engingakutsho ngoba angisuye malokazana njalo kangisuye mamazala womuntu.But umbono wami yilowu: Thina abesifazana kasiphathisani njengoba utshilo ngaphambilini.Akula lutho oluhle olwenziwa ngomunye wethu esilubukayo.Siyabe sisebenza ukuphatha emlonyeni kuphela "umaMthombeni unje,unje yee uqeda imali kazibani,wathi esenda wayenje" You know,things like that.It's been like this iminyaka leminyaka.Okunye mina I think, ngumhawu,(on the mamazala's side)Uyabe ebona engathi imali yomntanakhe ayisenakubuya ekhaya,izabe isiya kuboninazala baka jaha(which is usually the case)Asivumeni iqiniso bafethu!I think the guys are mostly to blame ngoba lisuka libakhohlwe onyoko likhangele kakhulu lapho elithethe khona,likhohlwa ukuthi lavela kuphi.