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« on: February 10, 2006, 10:37:49 AM »

i am sorry my english is very poor
i know many afrian living in my country,could you answer this  QUESTION?
If you do not would like to      the reason
if you would like to      the reason
原因是什么?
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why_why
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« Reply #1 on: February 10, 2006, 10:40:22 AM »

I dont understand your English~~~~~~
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« Reply #2 on: February 10, 2006, 01:19:33 PM »

(Speaking in deep southern redneck accent): "What we have here is a failure to communicate" © Cool Hand Luke
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« Reply #3 on: February 10, 2006, 01:51:45 PM »

That's right
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« Reply #4 on: April 02, 2006, 02:10:51 PM »

The question is "could You marry a chinese girl or man?Give reasons for your answer,whatever it is"
For me............hm hm hm.... let me see...................... nop!Too much cultural differences ;D ;D
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« Reply #5 on: April 02, 2006, 10:37:34 PM »

Cultural differences are a factor of course, but then again,  never underestimate the power of love. U can fall in love with the least likely of characters. ;D
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« Reply #6 on: April 03, 2006, 10:58:34 PM »

Are we hearing wedding bells from our man Khabzela!... well, some families are very cultured and do not allow the daughters or sons to marry another race.... remember how difficult it is to marry an indian woman from where you come from Khabz!. But like u say Love can break all barriers! culture or no culture.
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« Reply #7 on: April 04, 2006, 12:18:22 AM »

I think too many times we look too deep into the whole color and race thing.It really doesn't matter much when you love someone.You don't see them as being black or white or yellow,color,race and tribe cease to matter when that love thang hits you.Like you say Khabzela'Never under estimate the power of love'.Let's start seeing beyond black,white,chinese and start loving each other for who we really are:beautiful human beings made in God's image.Oh and if wedding bells are ringng,good on you man!
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« Reply #8 on: April 20, 2006, 11:35:48 PM »

Well said Precious! I knew I liked you! You're right, it really doesn't matter what race they belong to, just as long as they like you for who you are and vice versa. Otherwise you're wasting your time!  :)
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« Reply #9 on: May 22, 2006, 08:50:30 AM »

I am very open minded when it comes to race and things of that nature. I don't let stuff like that get in the way of me having fun or a relationship with someone. When I was in China last and even in the states I found myself attracted to quite a few Chinese guys. I dated a couple briefly when I lived in Jinan. I would definitely marry... if only I could get past that little problem that I've found associated with a lot of the Chinese guys  :(  ( if u know what i mean) I know it's not ALL but I've had some really bad luck finding one who didn't fit the stereotype
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« Reply #10 on: May 22, 2006, 12:48:34 PM »

I am very open minded when it comes to race and things of that nature. I don't let stuff like that get in the way of me having fun or a relationship with someone. When I was in China last and even in the states I found myself attracted to quite a few Chinese guys. I dated a couple briefly when I lived in Jinan. I would definitely marry... if only I could get past that little problem that I've found associated with a lot of the Chinese guys  :(  ( if u know what i mean) I know it's not ALL but I've had some really bad luck finding one who didn't fit the stereotype

no i don't.what exactly do you mean ??? ???
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« Reply #11 on: May 23, 2006, 12:42:51 AM »

uhhh, well forget i "said" anything... ;D
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« Reply #12 on: May 23, 2006, 10:27:32 AM »

Black girl interested in Chinese,,,,, uhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmm seems new to me........ :o :o :o :o ???
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« Reply #13 on: June 20, 2006, 01:28:41 AM »

 8) yes i would marry a chinese girl . in fact ive dated quite a few . i personally havent really exerpienced musc racism except from fellow blacks here in the U.S. and thats mainly beacause theirs alot of ignorence among fellow blacks . now from asians its a whole differient thing , its not beacause you'er black . mainly its beause u are not chinese . but if u prove yourself to be a good person and understand the language and culture people will ease up .http://
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« Reply #14 on: August 09, 2006, 01:27:22 AM »

well marriage is an institution that love drives.the most important issue here is love and not the concept of marriage or race.
HE WHO MUST LOVE MUST LEARN TO BEAR PAIN , FOR THE JOYS OF LOVE ARE THE PAINS OF LOVE.
Push the color and culture aside for a second , what would u see?u would see just mere humans who have let their sense of judgement be clouded by the empty arguments made for and against color and culture.
Granted , most chinese people look down on blacks , but then its not chinese alone , all non -black races dont exactly love blacks , going back to chinese:well when u really relate with these people u will find out that most of their fear and hatre for blacks is built on certain misconceptions that would take us BLACKS and BLACKS alone to correct.
Unfortunately i am not a man made for marriage if not i would marry a lady i love irrespective of , culture , color or background-----CHINESE INCLUDED.
HIS HOLINESS THE BLACKREVEREND
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