Any asian women interested in a black man

Asian women are wonderful.....Apart from their cute looks and smiles,they can be very caring. So,it's not wrong if a brother loves them. And oh, point of correction, Whites have no upper hand when it comes to dating an Asian lady. I myself is a living example and yeah,i'm black,but yet never found it hard as they most of the time prefer me to the whites around. Change that thinking ya'll ,just set ur game straight and see da real deal.

Promochuks, a handful of Asians like Black guys...those are the ones who are willing to befriend you, or react well when you talk to them.  And my bet is that about half of the Asians who would date Black guys,  would think twice about having kids with them (esp. because their family and the society won't react well to a half-black child).

Don't try to convince people in here that Asians don't care about skin colour, MOST do and are willing to tell you to your face.

Sabrina has her point, but I believe the change got to start somewhere. In many cases, educated people tend to be more confident and  worry less about how other people look at them because it is often expected that the elites set directions or trends while the rest just follow in a typical Asian society. 

Well,u're right on the aspect of how their society would take it and stuff. But my whole point is that, it's not always like that..That is they also want the brothers. Lemme tell u something,a couple of Asians want whites for these few reasons : 1)Nationality 2) Finance 3)Real Love (of which can happen with any race). U'd prove me right, when a black brother has the above benefitable 2 points,u'd realise that most would choose us instead of pur white brothers.   

Sorry promo I can't agree with you there.

Can't agree either. That's not what I have seen in my almost 10 years in Asia, where Caucasians get all doors open while Blacks folks have to prove themselves time and time again. And it's not in Asia only btw. Same shit happens elsewhere in the world.

yeah i think the woman may still choose the white guy because maybe of opportunities of going abroad or as a status.  she may very well like the black guy better but then maybe she has to think of how people will perceive her. 

like lucky dube says, "it ain't easy"

agree with promochuks. i am chinese, but i prefer black men to caucasians. i don't care how people perceive me, don't care about status, finance or opportunities of going abroad. just wish there were more black men here and that they were interested in chinese women. most of them seem to only date white or black women, esp the former. you see it everywhere: in the media and in real life

I can't believe someone is finding it so hard to date here in Asia, let alone a Black guy. I think the real problem is how to stick to one! And talking about skin color preferences Blacks rule the dating world here in Asia. Do not mind all the ads you see online and all the street scenes. Like someone mentioned, if we had the same number of Blacks as Whites in Asia the hand writing would be clear on the wall for everyone to see.   

I think Bridge is right.  A brother may have to work a little harder, but if you put your time in it pays off.  Getting a date is really very simple here....when I lived in Shanghai I had a date in the first couple of days after I moved in...I haven't tried to date in Suzhou, because I'm not interested.  Anyone who has met me knows I'm not the most attractive fellow in the world so if I can do it you can too. 

you guys are cracking me up.

chocolatelover, why you seem down that a black man would want to date a black woman. maybe i read your email wrong.  if i did then never mind.  you are serious about this chocolate hunt, ain't you.

with that many people in china there should be no complaints but then again it's easy to find someone to just kick it with but much harder to find a person you really want to spend time with.