I'm just tired of being alone

Right...here we go...

I was somewhat in doubt about posting this, as I kinda expect some people will assume I'm only after one thing, but I can assure you that my intention with this posting is genuine and real.

I'm a 31 years old guy from Scandinavia who's presently living in Shanghai. I'm single and have no kids, so I moved out here on my own.

I spent the last 5 years or so in London, and I absolutely love that city, but when the opportunity came for me to go out here for a while, I was happy to take on new challenges.

Shanghai is an exciting place to live, but it can also be a very lonely place, hence the reason for this posting. I'd like to meet a black girl for friendship or more if the chemistry is right. Why black? you ask...well...I've dated black girls in London, and that's just what I prefer...it's as simple as that really. I hope it makes sense!

In my sparetime I like to read, listen to music, go out for a drink, go to the gym, watch movies and travels/outdoor activities.

So, if there are any girls reading this thinking it'd be nice to meet a western man in Shanghai for friendship or dating, then please PM me with a little about yourself. As much as I'd like to meet a girl for a longterm relationship, I am equally happy to meet someone to go out for a drink with. Let's just take it nice and slow, and see what life has to offer us.

Hope to hear back from you.

Thanks for reading my posting.

Wow....wish u success,Brother.

Wow....wish u success,Brother.

Thanks man...I appreciate that...I wish I could say I've been inundated with replies but hey...Rome wasn't built in a day, right 

Agreed with that,Brother.

i just hope that there will be no "milan II" - just read another post here who was also looking for someone and the end, got swindled, just take care Brother..

Good luck!

Try Sabrina, she can be nice,,,,,,

Try Sabrina, she can be nice,,,,,,

Promo, instead of attempting to match-make why don't you do what your people do best online and send mass email scams to everyone.

Hahah....That was too stereotype,u need a whole lotta growing up to do lil girl. U once again,just showed how amateur u are. Kids coming in here to act up.

sabrina and promo i'm about to spray you two with water...real soon.  what's going on here?? 

promo - how do you know sabrina is nice?? why would you offer her up?  from what i know of her, she's well capable of getting her own.

sabrina - why would you generalize nigerians?  not good.  we're better than that stereotype you mentioned. 

ok as always someone owes me a drink up in this place.  if i didn't know better i think you two are sweet on each other. 

see you guys in august...for real this time. 

Ren da.....Come here please. See the thing is, i never took things too personal here. I was just really joking. For real offering her the guy was a kinda humour,which she could have just played back at me, but rather she got pissed about it. Ren da , i knwo a couple of times i threw words at u as a joke and i see how u lways reply maturedly. Well,i apologise,if trying to create a laugh would stir up rage...It wouldn't happen again. Oh, and that August of a thing, just cancel it oo,be here today and other days...
REN DA, i really wanna buy u a drink...When are u coming to Shenzhen? Oh ,and if i get to go to Shanghai,how do i find u? Holla

LOL well I thought that was pretty funny actually...I literally LOLed when I wrote that.

promo - i know you are joking.  i actually enjoy the exchange between you and sabrina sometimes.  you two are funny an i think you make the topic interesting. 

sabrina reminds me of one of my sisters.  she's got a quick tongue and knows how to give it right back to whoever. my sister is very sensitive and happy go lucky but she don't give people a pass when they need to be checked.

i'll be based in shanghai actually at the ecnu campus. can't wait to land and travel around a bit.  sabrina already owes me a drink and i'll travel to shenzhen for my drink too.  actually i want to check out some contacts in guangzhou and macau as well.

You guys have just derailed the brother's thread!

You guys have just derailed the brother's thread!

ok back to the topic at hand. 

haven't heard from brother2thenight in a long time so maybe he's tied up with someone or a couple of somebodies.