"Gay" does not always mean "happy or lively"

Someone's nibbling at my nipples , that's not funny um gonna have to scream it out loud. Hi fellas, my compliments of the season. Hope all is gay with u and yours. My tight schedule has considerably reduced my visit to this forum and I apologize for the vacuum my runaway attitude has created. Down to the topic I wanna  share with ya: being a gay is not a CRIME anymore especially in this high tech age... I'm only trying to let those of u who r  practicing homosexuality to let it be known to your friends so they can begin to respect u for your choice of lifestyle. If u keep hiding u r only gonna make yourself forever miserable and self detesting...something no one, esp a true friend will really care about.

So um challenging you guys and gals, spill it out here and let the torch of modernity inspire you to live that life that you've chosen like a free man or woman. There are many vices and bias such as chauvinism, sexism, superiority complex, inferiority complex..... that'll try to frighten u, I tell u dun lie to yourself, dun imprison yourself, shout it out loud..Let u gay guys and gals live the true meaning of the word "gay"...

Looking forward to your lines and the best of this YULETIDE
 

Andy...you don't have to be indirect about this.  If you're looking for a warm-hearted guy to heat up your sheets this cold Xmas eve, just post at the Personals board.

http://www.afroshanghai.com/shanghai/index.php/board,13.0.html

No shame in that.

.............this topic  touches nerves but is addressed with alot of care n i really dont understand why ......i will never understand how a guy can screw another guys ass....the time i will see a bull hump another bull maybe i will change that attitude ...why dont all faggots try the chics asses first before jumping into crazy conclusions.....sick

I'm not against homosexuality in any way, I think someone's sexual preferences is their business.  If someone prefers apples to oranges, surely you can't force them to like oranges?

...its their business everybody has a right to his/her own preferences ..but some preferences are just wrong ..... no matter what the world thinks

interesting topic andy.  why i wonder did you feel the need to urge those in the closet to come out.  did something happen to a friend of yours?

a person's preference is their business as long as they leave the kids alone.

interesting topic andy.  why i wonder did you feel the need to urge those in the closet to come out.  did something happen to a friend of yours?

a person's preference is their business as long as they leave the kids alone.

LOL he was trying to annoy me when he started this thread.   We were in a room full of gorgeous women & sizzling hot guys recently, and he chose to spend the evening accusing me of being a lesbian.

His childishness has decided to bring that accusation into the forum...

wala...the story gets interesting.

so is that the case andy?  does this topic stem from that outing?  or did the ladies find sabrina interesting and you felt left out

Ninja, where were you when political correctness came by for dinner the other day huh? Calling people faggots isn't done any more these days.

Anyways...i just wanted to come out the closet myself. Fellow Afroshanghiers, um a lesbian. I just love women to bits. Can all the lesbians please identify themselves. Feel free to send me a P.M. Let's meet and and have a big party in my bedroom.

P.S. Straight women are very welcome to attend. Nakedness is the minimum requirement to gain entry...(to the door i mean)

Since we talking closets check out link below, hehehehe!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bH84dnd7TqM&feature=related

um wait a minute...am i missing somthing here.  khabzela how can you be a lesbian when you're a guy.  or are you a male?

 i'm sure nakedness is not required for entry...

LOL he was trying to annoy me when he started this thread.   We were in a room full of gorgeous women & sizzling hot guys recently, and he chose to spend the evening accusing me of being a lesbian.
His childishness has decided to bring that accusation into the forum...

 ;DNow, here goes my girl, smart, witty, hot but very flat, that's y we'll be friends till we die. There's sth 'bout your choice of words that makes me feel like shouting in gibberish tunes LOL. Maybe if your initial response to my post had followed the quotation above we would've had scores of replies cumming to make it more interesting. About that party, I'm still trying to figure out the data Are u really a gay, or it was just my imagination

@ REN DA : Um a very jealous guy, not only over my girls, but over my boys as well.

Cheers

@ REN DA : Um a very jealous guy, not only over my girls, but over my boys as well.

Cheers

say what now??? did you say you are jealous over your girls and boys???  u coming out? 

so is that the case andy?  does this topic stem from that outing?  or did the ladies find sabrina interesting and you felt left out

The thing with Black guys in China: Chinese girls want to try them out so bad that they think all of a sudden they're hot stuff. So when a girl doesn't want to sleep with them they start questioning the girl's sexuality instead of looking at themselves in the mirror.

The "accusations" started when a female friend of mine rejected his fugly friend. Instead of telling it to his face that he just didn't meet the physical requirements, she told him she was a lesbian so he wouldn't persist.

...And because Andy lacks standard analytical skills, he thinks "if Sabrina's got a lesbian friend that automatically makes her a lesbian".

@ Andy - whatever it is that makes me what I am & what I look like: I don't have to go fishing in order to catch big phat fish.

With a guy-availability rate of 99.99% here in Shanghai, women shouldn't have to settle for burger when they can have steak.

So the next time you hear the word "NO", look at yourself in the mirror and say "darnit".

what now??? did you say you are jealous over your girls and boys???  u coming out? 

Ren da, maybe u should take a second look at the youtube Khabz made available on this closet thing.... Are u calling me to come out of the closet inorder to give u space I've got live records on my sexual leanings . I simply raised this issue to give those brothers n sisters in this gay business an opportunity to make it public and stop this self denial which is confusing everyone around them.

@SABRINA: I dunno which friend of mine got axed by this your self professed gay girlfriend, um just hearing of this connection.


Come on happy people live the true meaning of gay, say your guts out here, stop punishing yourselves..

Are u calling me to come out of the closet inorder to give u space I've got live records on my sexual leanings . I simply raised this issue to give those brothers n sisters in this gay business an opportunity to make it public and stop this self denial which is confusing everyone around them.  Come on happy people live the true meaning of gay, say your guts out here, stop punishing yourselves..

What's this new thing you've got pointing fingers at people? It's narrow-minded...and worst of all you're condescending, in a homophobic way.  Expect 15 year old kids to laugh and make fun of homosexuality...but you're almost 40, aren't you? This is no laughing matter, many people actually kill themselves or others every year because of all this hate.

I'm not pro-homosexuality, I'm just anti-discrimination.

@SABRINA: I dunno which friend of mine got axed by this your self professed gay girlfriend, um just hearing of this connection.

Pfft...quit pretending you know nothing about it. You told me one half of the story and that girl told me the other half.  Quite funny story really... But don't worry, I totally understand the whole trying not to 'lose face' thing so all of a sudden you have no idea what I'm talking about.

Preferences aside, why don't you share some of your homosexual experiences with us Andy? Even if they were only "accidental".