LIFE PARTNER WANTED

LIFE PARTNER WANTED

Long before, a wise friend of mine told me,"Life is a most important business of which everyone needs to take the best care." I like her comparation btwn life and business, though in the eyes of most people, life is much fancier and less measurable with endless romantic dreams while business more practical and can be easily measured by earnings in terms of success.
Her words set me thinking a lot about how to manage my own life business. Life business, I personally believe, has two major subsidiaries, one being marriage, the other career. Like all the other business forms, cooperation matters most within the two subsidiaries. To a lady of modern times, she needs to be effectively cooperative with both her Laogong(husband) in marriage and her Laoban(boss) in career. Otherwise, she might be slipping into the misery situation of being fired by both laogong and laoban, real dizaster! 
To avoid such a risk, ladies should keep eyes wide open while looking for the right partners, be it of marriage or career. And in my opinion, ladies can change a laoban without much difficulty but it's very hard to change a laogong. Though it is not forbidden, it's very painful, tiring, time-and-money-consuming,and heartbreaking. Few people can afford it, nor can I!
So, I'm here posting my BID-INVITATION for a partner in marriage with a hope to run a successful life business. Any interested person able to meet the following requirements is sincerely welcome.
1. Strong mind and body; kind heart and face.
2. Intelligent and well-educated.
3. Caring, responsible, and lovely in personality.
4. Age btwn 26-35yrs. Height btwn 172-180cm.
5. Having successful business or factory in China.
6. With African nationality while living in China at present.
NOTES:I am a Chinese lady, 26y, college teacher, with a master's degree and 3-year teaching experience. Beautiful, elegant, and decent-looking. I expect to find an intelligent businessman and manage and better with him our life business in China.
May my dream come true! And wish you all the best, my patient reader!
If you think my posting is fun, hope you have enjoyed it,but pls don't say anything unfriendly.
I'm available at: dianasun0001@hotmail.com.

Thanks!

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This post is worthless without pictures Diana Sun 

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LOL well said. I guess the other side has his own requirements as well  On the other hand I am always careful when a non-African girl clearly says she is specifically looking for an African man...

To Pat,

What you said is true. But I didn't expect my straightforward and clear words would arouse wild suspicion and wide doudts, though that happens commonly. Anyway, I appreciate your reply and it tells me how to express myself in a skillful and thought-through way. Thanks!

To Pinay,
 
I consider your simple words as honest advice. You know what? Just like your reaction, I also want to have a look at the samples when I read a heart-catching advertisement of some products. Hehee.I forgot the old saying---"Seeing is believing". And only by seeing the product, can we make a decision on whether it is the thing we want or not. So, what you said is also true.

Then, what should I do? Pls tell me,pals.

Ok, Pat, could you pls do me a favor and simply remove my Bid-invitation?!
 

LOL.. why do I feel like I know you somewhere  

I guess you aint ready  , Show me what you got, and I'll find ur African Prince for you.. Trust me , I know where the good ones are hiding..

diana sun i wish you luck.  i really think you should go about meeting your life partner at social events or maybe find an african female friend and get to know the culture.  that way you will understand the african culture better. african men are our back bone and protectors in africa. 

i hope you know that they are the head of the family and hold their culture and mama, papa, uncle, cousin, sister, brother, and the rest of their extended families close to their hearts and efforts in life.  you sound like you know what you want but i can't help to see materialism there. 

you never said why you would like an african man.  do you like them or do you think you can jump in on his success and make it yours?

Ok, Pat, could you pls do me a favor and simply remove my Bid-invitation?!
 

That would be such a shame to remove such an interesting topic . It has been moved to a more appropriate section 

Show me what you got, and I'll find ur African Prince for you.. Trust me , I know where the good ones are hiding..

Pffft.

african men are our back bone and protectors in africa.  i hope you know that they are the head of the family and hold their culture and mama, papa, uncle, cousin, sister, brother, and the rest of their extended families close to their hearts and efforts in life.

Not necessarily. Quit making non-Africans think that ALL of Africa is still based on this primitive gender hierarchy.  In my country there's been this shift over the years where you find a lot of male "gold-diggers" and the women are the ones driving the shiny cars they brought back from their studies overseas (more budget-conscious throughout their studies perhaps?)...so yeah, if what you just explained happens in your country, make it clear - because it doesn't necessarily happen in all parts of Africa.

sabrina,

i was not stating something as a general statement for all african men.  as an african woman i know that we are empowered to do whatever we set our minds to.  i did not downgrade african women in my earlier statement. 

i don't have to scream about all that african women can accomplish while at the same time lifting up african men.  the women in my family are all successful business women and have their own money and have never had to look to their husbands for financial support.  at the same time, they believe in the family structure and don't feel that just becasue they are financially independent then they don't need to take their husbands opinions into account.

i've travelled throughout africa and i can say that i was not speaking for all africans but a lot of africans can agreed that boys are taught to look after their sisters while growing up.  men in the family will stick up for their female members if they are harmed.  it's not a primitive notion.  it doesn't just apply to africa.  i've live in 3 continents and the africans i've met have embraced their new environments yet still hold their african traditions to heart.  that doesn't mean any one group is primitive in their thinking. 

you don't have to fight so hard to be independent that you lose your culture.  we look so much to the west that we neglect the beauty of who we are. 

Well, As a true son of the soil "Africa",I guess I got the right to contribute,right?haha Just yanking around,anyway I'ma stick on simplicity. Cos Obviously diana did explain her desires,what she wants and I'm gonna assume she knew quite well this ain't no red-indians website,matter of fact she knows this here be the right forum to post stuffs like that,We gotta respect that as an africans not nickle and dime on it till it turns to a thing.

Sec of to, "we look so much to the west that we forget the beauty of who we are" Word up! that makes a whole lotta sense to me though and I guess it does to some folks up in here too.

My point is, erbody needs to put her through on the right path of her desires.

Wish you luck,diana and all of yall.

Have got to wish diana goodluck,she also need to answer the question renda brought up. no offence

Hmm....It's not bad that she expressed herself...Any interested Guy should just holla at her, it's pretty simple...Peace

LIFE PARTNER WANTED


1. Strong mind and body; kind heart and face.
2. Intelligent and well-educated.
3. Caring, responsible, and lovely in personality.
4. Age btwn 26-35yrs. Height btwn 172-180cm.
5. Having successful business or factory in China.
6. With African nationality while living in China at present.
NOTES:I am a Chinese lady, 26y, college teacher, with a master's degree and 3-year teaching experience. Beautiful, elegant, and decent-looking. I expect to find an intelligent businessman and manage and better with him our life business in China.

Nice try Diana, really kind of palatable. My fear is that u r actually in search of a business partner, probably a laoban and not a laogong. I'm wishing u luck in your search; but be careful "a town trap is not only for the rats".

HELLO!!!!! andy you read into that didn't you.  didn't it sound like a business deal for someone who is established already and doing well in his business.  i will say that diana is a smart woman.  she's putting it out there...she wants a benefactor.  hey diana, i'm not saying that is what you really want...it just looks that way.

you should make some african friends so you can meet your business partner... opps i mean life partner.

Yeah but to use the words "life partner" is just a nasty thing (I mean, what is that?).

Any man who meets those 6 requirements is a man any gal would go for - so I doubt he'd pick up some random decent-looking Chinese lady who threw-in the ad at some forum...esp. 'coz he doesn't have to settle for a compromise.

Since it's a marriage of convenience I suggest adding one more thing to the long list:

7. He should be gay and just looking for a decent-looking wife so his mum won't be disappointed.

There you have it, the perfect "life partner".

I actually saw this ad once at craiglist.com where this Chinese guy was looking for a wife I mean life partner and he'd provide her with everything she wants, they'd live together like a happily married couple so his mum would be happy - except his life partner must understand the fact that his gay...

Ok, am I going to far with this? Whatever.